Hey, do you know that feeling of hitching up a long skirt so you don’t fall on your face when walking upstairs, and then you immediately become a wretched yet resolute Jane Austen character? It’s a universal thing, right?
It’s like resting a laundry basket against your hip and suddenly you’re a long-suffering peasant woman, wondering if you’ll survive the winter.
a shawl wrapped around the shoulders and you’re wandering the moors in a Brönte novel, feeling melancholic
Looking out the window at the rain and you’re a love-stricken newlywed wondering when your husband will return from the war.
Long skirt billowing behind you while to go down the stairs, you’re a proper Lady in a flowing ball gown being introduced at a fancy social function.
Hair blowing in the wind and suddenly you’re hovering on a cliff by the sea, staring out into the waves and praying your merchant husband will return from his voyage across the ocean
Hood up against the rain and wind and you’re a medieval abbess defying the weather and travelling on foot with your people to find a place to establish a new community.
Wiping your hands on your apron and you’re an 18th century kitchen girl rushing to let in the delivery boy you secretly love.
In 2016 Stan was asked which MCU actor he had bonded with the most:
“Chris. The fellow who plays Captain America, he was the Human Torch and then they made him Captain America and he’s the greatest guy, but I love them all.”
Motivation is a useful tool, but it comes in waves and can disappear at any moment. A ‘motivated student’ is not a student who is constantly motivated.
The real secret of good and motivated students is that they are self-disciplined.
Motivation will inspire a good student in the beginning, but eventually, when this goes, they knuckle down and commit themselves to getting stuff done, knowing that the long-term goal is the most important, regardless of how they feel.
Don’t be disheartened if you lose your motivation: keep yourself disciplined and you will get it done, and that is what the secret to being a good student is.
Motivation is a useful tool, but it comes in waves and can disappear at any moment. A ‘motivated student’ is not a student who is constantly motivated.
The real secret of good and motivated students is that they are self-disciplined.
Motivation will inspire a good student in the beginning, but eventually, when this goes, they knuckle down and commit themselves to getting stuff done, knowing that the long-term goal is the most important, regardless of how they feel.
Don’t be disheartened if you lose your motivation: keep yourself disciplined and you will get it done, and that is what the secret to being a good student is.
The great thing about fandom/internet friends vs. friends you meet out IRL, is that when you get to know people for the first time face-to-face, there’s this awkward process of trying to figure out juuuust how much of a dork they are, and how much you can nerd out before you scare them off. Like, you don’t wanna break out the real freaky shit right off. There’s always the impulse to hang back a little, as you try to gauge just how into a thing they are. But with fandom friends? You fucking met them in the garbage heap. You knew their fucked up narrative kinks before you even know their real name. They are screaming their passions into the void. Your friendship comes pre-loaded with already knowing the exact depths of each other’s depravity, and any ordinary-people-shit you have in common is just a bonus.
The day we finally get to meet face to face is going to be like a reunion of lost souls that have been orbiting each other for over a decade talking shit haha