visibilityofcolor:

T’challa really showed that black men could be soft and i hope people men in our community took note. He showed us that there is nothing wrong with a strong man leaning on strong women, that there is nothing wrong crying and showing your emotions, that there is nothing wrong with admitting your mistakes…etc…etc..he was like, the biggest slap in the face to toxic masculinity and like, i am so happy for that. He is soft, kind, and respectful and to see a black male written that way is so very refreshing.